Confessions of a Confused Christian

Wednesday, December 20, 2006

Lessons from an airplane

Okay, do not let the title of post fool you. I will not spend time talking about the airplane. I will not write of how you are putting faith in a giant piece of metal flying through the sky at 30,000 feet and how if one wire is not properly connected life as you know it could take a drastic change. Wow, now I do not want to fly anymore. I will not talk about all the people it takes to make a successful flight from the pilot, flight attendant, mechanics, air traffic controllers, ramp crew, fuel crew, wing walker, and on and on. I think there is a great lesson there for the church about how each person has a different function but a common goal of helping people reach their destinations safely. I will not discuss those things. Wait, I already have.

I want to share about an experience I had on our way to Ethiopia to meet our son. Our itinerary was to fly from Memphis to Chicago; Chicago to Washington Dulles; switch airline in Washington and fly to Addis Ababa, Ethiopia. It was a smooth flight all the way. When we were flying from Chicago to Washington, Kellie and I were not able to sit together. I thought I would take advantage of the situation by catching up on some reading. I grabbed Blue Like Jazz and opened the book. However, before I was able to read a single word the man sitting next to me began to ask me questions. He sat down and said hello. I said hello in return and then once again opened my book. He proceeded to ask how my day had been so far. I told him it was fine and I stared back into my book. Feeling guilty, I asked him how his day had been. He responded that it was good but that he had a long flight ahead of him. I said "Well, I wish you the best" and began to once again look at my book (I had read about five words so far and I thought I should have been finished with a few pages by now). He did not seem to care that I wanted to read. He told me he was travelling to Liberia to visit his family. I decided to put my book back into my bag and have a conversation with the man.

We talked about Africa and how to communicate cross culturally. We discussed stereotypes Americans have about Africa and Africans have about America. It was a good discussion.

He asked me what I do. I find that question funny because I have no idea what I do. I minister to people whenever I can. I teach classes at church. I do leadership development. I am a student, but not this semester. I do not get paid to work for the church. I decided to tell him that I was a minister. He got so excited. He began to talk about ministry, about how we are all ministers, about how Jesus changes lives. He talked about the need for Christianity in Africa where his family is and in Chicago where he had lived for the last 17 years.

I learned a lot from this man. I was glad to be sitting next to him. He began to tell me what he did for a living. He has a business in Chicago that cleans church buildings. He then began to teach me about discipleship. He talked about how being a janitor doesn't seem like an ideal occupation, but how he would not change his career. He said Jesus washed the disciples feet because there was a need and everyone thought they were above that job. Jesus served his disciples. He said people come to a church building and sing songs and hear good sermons and attend good events; but they often think they are above cleaning the toilet. He said if Jesus were here today, he would clean the toilet, he would mop up the vomit from the three year old classroom, he would serve because someone needed to serve. He was not above service. In fact his own words were that he came not to be served, but to serve.

I think that is an awesome picture of Jesus. Jesus serving. Jesus wrapping the towel around his waist and washing the disciples' feet. Jesus grabbing the mop and cleaning up after we get sick. Jesus grabbing a toilet brush and doing the job no one else wants to do. Jesus serving. Jesus loving. Jesus taking a cross and carrying it up the hill to be crucified because of our impurities.

I am thankful for this man. I am glad I had the opportunity to sit next to him. I enjoyed the book once I was finally able to read it. But I am so glad this man interrupted my selfish desire in order to teach me about discipleship. Am I willing to serve? Do I seek only the glory positions? Sure, I love to preach and teach and be out in front - but am I willing to scrub a toilet in the name of Jesus and consider my role just as important as the teacher, preacher, and missionary? Thank you for the lesson, Lord. Teach me how to apply it.

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Monday, December 18, 2006

When Love Takes You In

This holiday season brings on new meaning for us. Our adoption of Leulseged reminds us how blessed we are to be adopted by God.

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All I Really Want for Christmas

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Sunday, December 10, 2006

Timothy & Leulseged Learning to Play Together

The boys are learning how to get along. This is one of the first times they played together.

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Addis through the eyes of a taxi ride

Addis Ababa, Ethiopia through the eyes of a taxi ride. I can still smell the exhaust and hear the sounds of the call to prayer waking us up at 4:00 AM every morning. Enjoy the video and remember to pray not only for the people of Ethiopia, but for all those living in poverty and disease.

Saturday, December 02, 2006

Our trip to Ethiopia

Wow! What an adventure. This journey called adoption is a wonderful time of learning. Although it is not always a wonderful experience, the rewards and the lessons learned make it wonderful. It was a hectic time because we left for Ethiopia the Saturday after Thanksgiving. We had so much to do and so little time. We spent time with family in Hot Springs, AR before we left. It was a great time, but it really made it much more challenging to get done what we needed to accomplish. We flew out on United from Memphis to Chicago to Wahsington Dulles, we transferred to Ethiopian Airlines for our flight to Addis Ababa. It was a great flight. We were able to catch some Z's and eat a lot of good food.
After going through customs in Addis we met Dagne, Job (pronounced Yob), and Kasshion (sp?). They were very friendly and loving toward us. They drove us to the SIM guest house where we stayed during our time in Addis. It was a great place to stay. We met people from all over the globe there.
We went to the care center on Monday to meet Leulseged for the first time. It was an indescribable moment. We have been waiting so long and have known about him for so long that it almost didn 't seem real. He was no longer a picture on a computer, he was actually sitting in our lap giving us a hug.
The children were beautiful and the staff is very loving and they all have a great heart for the children. We loved meeting Leulseged for the first time.









Leul is a wonderful child. He is truly a gift from God. We are blessed to have him in our life. The bonding was difficult the first couple of days and I know we will still have times of trials, but we are family. We actually left the country early to return home because it was such a difficult adjustment for our little guy. On our return trip, he was really good. We flew from Addis back to Washington with no probelems. From Washington to Chicago we had no trouble. He slept the entire way. By the time we were in Chicago for our final flight home, Leulseged had enough flying. We ended up renting a car and driving ten hours, but it was great. When it was just the three of us Leulseged took off his jacket for the very first time. That was a huge step because he was so attached to that jacket and any time we tried to take it off to change him, he would throw a fit. But when it was just the three of us, he voluntarily took it off.






We have enjoyed our time together so far. We have many adjustments to make as a family and our biological son is having a hard time sharing his mommy and daddy, but it is a beautiful picture when they are enjoying each others company. How can you not smile at moments like this?





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